Jamila bint Abdullah ibn Ubayy ibn Salul: The first woman to whom the law of khul' (divorce initiated by the wife) was applied.
Jamila bint Abdullah ibn Ubayy ibn Salul was married to
Hanzala ibn Abi Amir al-Awsi, known as Ghasil al-Mala'ika (the one washed by
angels), and was the mother of Abdullah ibn Hanzala. Hanzala was martyred at
the Battle of Uhud. Afterwards, Ali married Jamila to Thabit ibn Qays ibn
Shammas of the Khazraj tribe, and she bore him Muhammad. Her two sons, Abdullah
ibn Hanzalah and Muhammad ibn Qays, were killed on the day of al-Harrah
(reported by Ibn Mandah, who narrated it from Muhammad ibn Sa'd, the scribe of
al-Waqidi).
Jamilah had a story with Thabit ibn Qays, which Abdullah ibn
Abbas, may God be pleased with them both, related. He said, "Jamilah, the
wife of Thabit ibn Qays, came to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him,
and told him that she did not find fault with her husband, Thabit ibn Qays, in
anything that detracted from his religion or character, but that she disliked
disbelief in Islam. By disbelief in Islam, she meant that she disliked him
because of his ugliness and unattractive appearance." She feared that this
natural aversion to him would lead her to ingratitude towards her husband,
neglecting her duties towards him, mistreating him, and committing acts
contrary to Islam, such as discord, quarrels, and rebellion—actions one might
expect from a beautiful young woman who dislikes her husband. This is what she
meant by disbelief in Islam. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)
asked her, "Will you return his garden to him?" Meaning: If you
dislike him and fear that remaining married to him will lead to something... He
is contrary to the religion of Islam. Will you ransom yourself from him with
money, returning to him the garden he gave you as your dowry? She said,
"Yes, I will do that." So the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon
him, said to her husband, Thabit ibn Qays, may God be pleased with him, “Accept
the garden and divorce her with one pronouncement.” It will remain a testament
to the virtue of Jamilah bint Abdullah ibn Ubayy ibn Salul, may God be pleased
with her, for women after her until the Day of Judgment that she was the first
to have the law of khul’ applied to her, with its ease for women to free
themselves from a marital life that had lost tranquility, affection, and mercy
and in which animosity and hatred had taken root.

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